Bullying, Alarming Problem In Adolescence

Bullying, alarming problem in adolescence

Introduction

Bullying synonymous with bully. Bullying is not only manifested in the physical aspect but also in psychological and sexual and now in cyber-bullying. This damage will reside with your personal safety and little self – esteem.

Developing

Bullying is presented through intentional acts of intimidation and victimization;In this sense, it should be mentioned that the victim’s personal and educational training is negatively affected as a result of abuse. It implies hitting other classmates, making mockery, sending insults or manipulation of images on social networks;That they can become very harmful to those who generally suffer in silence and alone, their duration can be weeks, months and even years, bullying does not distinguish social status and sex.

There are also no differences in victims. The aggressor harasses the victim when he is alone, in the bathrooms, in the halls, in the dining room, in the patio. For this reason the teachers often neither as aware are. However, it is not a simple push or comment, it is a situation that does not stop in time can cause severe emotional damage to the victim.

Bullying occurs when the victim is damaged by the aggressor. This type of violence can be given in different ways, both physical and verbally or psychologically. Today, students use technology to increase their wave of violence.

We can find more videos on the network (Internet) that show the degree of rejection that can be housed between equals.

And is that one of the characteristics of bullying is precisely this, which occurs between such. In addition to this bullying not only affects the victim who suffers it but also those around her, it is a problem that must be addressed both at the family level and in educational institutions.

It is very important to name the consequences of bullying, since these depend whether or not the aggressions are strong among these:

• Low self-esteem.
• Passive attitudes.
• Emotional disorders.
• Psychosomatic problems.
• Depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts.
• Loss of interest in studies, which can trigger a minor
• School performance and failure.
• Appearance of phobic disorders.
• Feelings of guilt.
• Behavior alterations: intrusion, introversion, shyness. Social isolation and loneliness.
• Problems in social and family relations.
• Rejection of school.
• Neurotic and anger manifestations.
• Faults of school assistance and even abandonment of studies.

Young people are tomorrow’s generation, so it is very important that they receive a violence -free education. The cost of bullying in economic terms is high, but in terms of suffering it is incalculable, since depressive disorders interfere with daily routine and cause suffering not only to those who suffer from it, but also their loved ones.

This problem presents a gloomy future for society, because children who suffer from and do so will be the adults of the future, and before a growing population the problem seems to increase. Thinking that many adults will have personal problems in their works and families products of emotional traumas that were not treated and that the vicious circle does not seem to stop makes us see that the problem is far from solving.

conclusion

Thus we conclude that bullying is not only a simple game between children or young people, but sometimes it could become something really serious. Bullying is common in this society, it is something important because it destroys self – esteem, and the confidence of our children. Can reach depression and anxiety. And they will create more serious difficulties to adapt to society, it will begin to get bad grades and, at most, it can reach suicide. I have also concluded that bullying can trigger great consequences in both victims and aggressors marking their lives. Many victims and victimizers can end up having alcoholism problems, drug addiction, short -term school absenteeism and long -term work absenteeism, insecurity and low self – esteem, as well as make the decision to end their lives. We can no longer return the time to detect bullying at the right time and avoid a lot of suicides, but we can still prevent and raise awareness among the population about its importance.