Love: Understood By Few And Desired By Many

Love: understood by few and desired by many

Love is understood by few and desired by many, it is difficult to be able to define love as such, the definition of love for Plato had nothing to do with physical or sexual attraction, it was a difficult connection to describe between two people and theadmiration should be the main reason (Anonymous, 2018). Love is much more than a taste in sight, influences the beauty of each individual although we must focus not on purely physical beauty, we talk about beauty focusing on virtue and the beautiful cognitive qualities of people, because love is notOnly pleasure in view or sexual pleasure, love is beyond the physical reaching the mental because the individual who loves and is loved, feeling love is because as much as the physical, the mental and sentimental gender inThe person a taste and admiration for the virtues of his partner, it is impossible for the human being to include only the physicist, because the physicist although he pleases and pleasure, the set of feelings and emotions granted by love is different and generates different sensations.

When we get to the subject of love, the main thing in Him is self-love, love and admiration that we ourselves have, but we must think why it is so important to love ourselves? Everyone has a different physical appearance and everyone has a different perception about beauty, to beginAlthough each human being has defects in their physique, it varies according to the person’s perception about the beautiful and the ugly, regardless of what concept we have, we must accept ourselves as we are because we are a set of virtues and imperfections that make us beingshumans and accepting ourselves as we are is essential to exist, since by loving ourselves, we respect ourselves, we value what we are and what we do.

The concept of ourselves manages to help us move forward regardless of the circumstances, generating an environment of trust, by loving ourselves completely and being ourselves regardlessAME is so important because each one intends to fall in love and achieve someone, but in orderWe individually, because if I don’t love myself and I don’t respect myself, how can I expect someone to do it for me .

It is evident that over time love has constantly changed this, this is because the human being has evolved his thinking and behavior, love in ancient times manifested differently, in paleolithic era there was no concept of love Because the human being saw the relationship with another people only to extend the generation, on the other hand, in the fourteent People, courtes were made among the nobles was a confidential love since at this time the marriages were arranged, love they saw it out of the convenience of money, they truly practiced love with sincerity and men were gentlemen, the Cortés love was not blessed by the priest since it was prohibited and illegal, love from medieval times was understood as the deep feeling towards a person who was not clearly XUAL, I went beyond the physical where men were very noble and generous. In addition in the 60s and 70s, love was demonstrated with many romantic details, where men expressed appreciation towards women in very tender ways, idealizing women and conquering her with letters, flowers and dedicated songs, among others, with thisWe define that love was important in people’s lives at this time, because it was demonstrated, in addition the idea of family and love as a basis was fundamental. At this time when we live, love became modernity and romantic details of before are not evidenced so much but is demonstrated by social networks, when talking about modern love, it must be taken into account that in this century love isIt confuses as before at the time of the Paleolithic since in many cases modern people use love as a mask of sex and passion, it is here that we find a big difference between modern and ancient love, on the one hand in ancient love we have thelove of romance and love for convenience and in modern love passion and sex.

Let us examine the concept of love today, as I said previously the thought about love evolved and in the present the true meaning about love is little understood, this can be achieved to show in Colombia in 2018 last year 23.422 marriages decided to terminate their unions, 2 percent more than in 2017, when that figure reached 23.053 (Anonymous, 2019) today’s relationships last very little and are very unstable, society not knowing the true meaning of love, confuses it by simple attraction is sexual or body, sex is a normal need for being of beingHuman, when a couple finds that sexually pleases, this is where you can confuse the feeling of passion, in this century people think that to be in love you must seek the complement of each one, to the point of becoming dependent on the other person, this plays a serious error in each one because a complement should not be soughtan aid to improve together where sex does not influence the couple’s decisions.

Each of us feel love and not precisely romantic, we love our parents or our pets, we love to smile, we love ourselves and love small actions that people generate or that we generate, it is so important to feel love sinceLove is loaded with each of the feelings, without feeling love for our work as we could go to work or study to fulfill what we want so much, without feeling the love for things or for the person, we would not be fully happy, withoutLoving ourselves would not be able to respect oursWhat this entails, causing the cold feeling of loneliness, wanting to reach the ecstasy of love and desire.

Sometimes we can spend a lifetime wishing true love, but we see so many problems of relationshipKnow the difference between love or pleasure of a sexual company? It is perhaps that each person can feel the love for someone, to highlight love could never become negative, true love respects, is tolerant, is sincere, the negative of each na of relationships are transformations of the human being,who is responsible for finishing love and changing it to jealousy, fear and disrespect.It is clear that to be with someone we please us at the sentimental level and in many cases sexual, but when it comes to sex, it is only that, only the passion feels for a few minutes, for that time the human being forgets everything, he only enjoysThe moment, on the other hand, when we talk about love in sexuality, is evidenceCoito, where true feelings are experienced, which entails love.

It is necessary to highlight that many people become dependent on loving someone, people want to find a love that fix their lives and stop being alone, but this is where each person should understand that we can be fine without a couple, because being Human in case it is only capable of everything, a relationship should not cause the thought "Without you I cannot live", a relationship with love only adds positive things to the other, adds happiness, does not mean that it is happiness completely, adds aspects and characteristics positive, therefore you cannot think that being with someone is everything in life and it is the only thing necessary, the most important thing is to learn to live each on their own, being independent each and after learning to be independent We can really love a person who is totally someone to help us improve more every day, where we transform the phrase to “if I can live without you because I am capable but I don’t want or get away ".

Consequently, we must analyze whether love is fundamental to us or if we can live without it. When we are born we need the attention of our parents and their love for all our way in life, love only leads to good things if love did not exist, our parents in any difficulty with us would give up, in society it is the same is the same, each person has a social circle and best friends, to whom in a certain way we love them, by loving them we only want the well -being for them, causing each act to them positive, another case would exist when you have a pet, the people whoHe does not love his pet in any mischief or error, he would hit him or stop taking care of him, but if he loves it with sincerity he will not give up and try to fix the situation, love exists in many ways but in every way in which he manifestsOr it is expressed it is positive, without it in our lives so many positive acts towards our loved ones would not exist because without this there is no respect, there is anger, resentment and hate. Love covers many feelings both happiness, sadness, anger, among others, it is here where the concept of love as negative is distorted, love is the feeling of one person towards another, it is the duty of each one to take care of this love because loveIf you do not take care of it, it ends and it is here that we can feel that it does not exist as such but this is a mistake.