The Values ​​Within The Family

The values ​​within the family

The family is very important, everything begins or is taught at home: education, values, discipline and even morals; If you are not instructed at home, it is unlikely that someone in the street does it.

Children since they are young need to be guided to learn what is correct. Family norms help the child from an early age to recognize which behavior is adequate and which does not. Having limits and rules in the house, it helps to follow the rules established in other places. By punishing them when they breach the rules also helps children learn because they are so important. This is how since childhood is taught to be aware as they grow from what society expects from them in the future; The problem is that parents no longer show this same attention to their children. This is where we can mention the concept of liquid modernity which indicates a change figure, where nothing is permanent or fixed being the case of parenting in the family because in recent decades it was changing.

In previous times the family was much more involved with their children and in their education compared to today, where children and young people can now do much without consequences, because both parents are more busy paying attention to their work or cell phone that education or correct your child’s behavior. This little by little was presented in society, because over the years the parents were getting younger and more unconscious of the great responsibility of raising a child.

If young people see that there are no consequences when breaking the rules then they are not interested in following them, but that not only applies to children but also in adults.

In order for the rules of any area to be fulfilled, it is necessary that most people accept them, comply with them and punish those who violate them. Unfortunately in our current society this is not always the case, since individuals with power can leave unharmed without facing the consequences of their actions and this is where everything begins to collapse, because the norms are made so that everyone complies with, from the Higher of the hierarchy until the last step of the pyramid.

The State or the Government are so indifferent in this situation, it has no interest in instilling the importance of values, education and morals but on the contrary give a bad example for the rest of the population of the behavior class that You should not continue or practice. This demotivates people to want to be better people because they are being governed by individuals who do not follow the norms when the breach of these gives them a personal benefit, which results in the population is indifferent when someone violates the rules.

The problem with this is that we are habiting the behavior we witness around us; It is difficult to see that now, things like corruption are common today, where values ​​are no longer taken into account, morality is lost and everything revolves through personal well -being instead of the collective.

In conclusion I think that every day that passes, there is less respect for the rules.