Children’S Self – Esteem, A Little Known Concept

Children’s self – esteem, a little known concept

 You really know what self-concept and self – esteem means. You know how to imply these concepts in your life.

The following text presents the importance of these concepts in people’s lives, emphasizing the importance of childhood.

First, understanding these concepts, self-concept as the name says indicates the own perception of oneself, are those abstract descriptions of oneself. Therefore, that is why it is closely related to the concept of self – esteem. self – esteem can be called the own evaluation of that set of descriptions (self-concept), therefore, to have self – esteem it is necessary to observe your own.

Garcia, a trauma researcher in childhood. He said that in the last decade emotional disorders in children and adolescents have increased significantly. She wondered why this happened. She mentioned various factors, such as increases in divorce, the importance to the beauty of the body, the few limits in families, among others. But the one that should be highlighted is the "difficulty to think autonomously, symbolize and release internal tension". This is undoubtedly. And when we talk about Low, I do not mean that not only is it not known enough, but not implemented as a training process.

We know that in Mexico the right to education is universal and for all, but really what happens in our country is that there is a high lag of studies. It means that, although many begin education, there are few who finish it.

According to INEGI hard data of 2004, in our country in 2000, 33 million young people aged 15 and over, they were in a lag of education.

And when we talk about this lag of education, it is a hard fact. Because authors like Zamora say that self – esteem is also formed in education classrooms. It is formed with friends and belonging to a group. It develops with the satisfaction of knowledge learning, with the understanding of history, the world, mathematics and among other factors. As Zamora also says self – esteem arises from language learning and sphincter control.

But what happens to the education of the house, the one that arises from the moment they load us, at the time we pass with our mothers, from the first steps, self – esteem is said to start since we are born, but beginsTo train from the early childhood of development, some authors such as Sánchez say it. And she herself mentions that this is in five areas. Social, academic, family, physical image and global self – esteem. It is here where to mention again that self – esteem is partly formed by a search for education where family, school, friends and those people close to the person participate.

Once knowing the importance of these concepts, it is time to question oneself. How did my person evaluate? I can help others find that true self – esteem.

It is therefore to mention that building fruitful attachment relationships are essential for the formation of self – esteem, because from that exchange that is made in relationships the person manages to compare their strengths, so that it can be positively evaluated firmly that theAnother person sees the same. That comparing many authors such as Zamora, mention it as internalize, which is when the person through non -visible behaviors as thoughts, feels what his person represents before the reality that includes him around him.

Something that Goethe said."

As Zamora said and like Goethe, looking for children to find that space to internalize is essential for their development. Zamora said that this is why telling our children their qualities, treating them with respect, imposing norms and limits. Another thing that Zamora mentions is to take into account a style of democratic parenting This means that the participation of children is taken into account and something that most included is giving them that opportunity that they can make decisions. Decisions are undoubtedly part of the training of that security that people need.

From the information of the text, it recognizes the importance of self – esteem, which as mentioned is built more than just knowing it. It is built from the internalization that arises from the links arising from the first moments of life to death. That is why the work that the nearby build their self – esteem, a lot to recognize them as being independent capable of giving the world the best of them. And that to get to do their best it is only necessary.

self – esteem a little known concept, however, a concept that, although I do not always bear the name, is a concept that the human being by nature does. However, as egocentric beings we sometimes forget to share that search process for those children who reach an every day more complex and great to understand.

Let us make ours love themselves more to go to the world with a shield that allows them to do their best without waiting. Because pain is something undoubtedly inevitable, but if we are free beings, beings who love themselves. We can go to the encounter forward.

Forward, find yourself and help others be.