Cortés Love And Its Myths

Cortés love and its myths

Introduction

“64% of people use chat or private messages as a gun of conquest, while 40% admit that since it is part of social networks they have easily achieved a partner. 60% believe they could know the love of their life on the network. For those consulted there is an explanation about the use of the Internet to get a partner: it is less complicated. 67% believe to seduce through the web is more viable than doing face to face. In addition, the possibility of rejection decreases or less than 68% of people surveyed in the region consider that with the Internet it is easier to be unfaithful ”.

Developing

Romantic love myths

We start from the hypothesis that digital technologies favor the performativity of certain components of the romantic love model. But what is a myth? A myth is the belief that is assumed as absolute truth, without issues. These types of ideas contribute identity to the group to which it belongs, society, ethnicity … and therefore they are able to stay, both in the face of time and reasoning.

The myths of romantic love currently govern, despite being an idea gestated centuries ago, theories about ideal love in our society. Romantic myths are usually fictitious, absurd, deceptive, irrational and impossible to fulfill. To understand in depth its meaning and influence on people, as well as in their link with social networks, we show an exhibition picture with the three planes to which we refer.

MY ORANGE MYTH

Confers the idea that we all have a person aimed at being our partner. We are a "half" in search of our other perfect "half" and that is our only possible choice. It could lead to an excessively high level of demand in the relationship, with the consequent risk of disappointment, or excessive tolerance when considering that being the ideal couple, we must be more permissive for the relationship to work, being able to reach the agencyaffective.

This myth could be a precursor of problems such as considering that our partner is not perfect enough to be our "half orange" and maintain an incessant search, in applications, a better couple or, on the other hand, consent a control of our movements inSocial networks, passwords

Belief that the natural state of the human being is as a couple and that monogamy is its only expression. The myth of pairing is implicit, in addition, that the couple is indisputably heterosexual. The acceptance of this belief can lead to internal conflicts in those people who divert in some way of this normative belief unpaid people, who are with people of the same sex or with more than one person.

It could lead to an excessively high level of demand in the relationship, with the consequent risk of disappointment, or excessive tolerance when considering that being the ideal couple, it must be allowed more or striving more so that things are going well, being able to arriveTo the affective dependence.

conclusion

Extended idea that jealousy is a sign of love, and not only that, but if there are no jealousy, there is no love. This myth was also introduced by Christianity as a guarantor of exclusivity and fidelity, previously commented. It is usually used to justify selfish, unfair, repressive and sometimes violent behaviors and appears in some of the multicausal explanatory models as one of the history of gender violence.